About The Writing Den
Our Mission
The Writing Den is a new and growing 501(c)(3) nonprofit that launched in San Diego, September 2017. Our mission is to re-connect the homeless and those in need with their families and loved ones using the power of handwriting. We assist them one-on-one with their writing, and provide all writing materials, postage, and mailing services.
Our Locations
We partner with homeless service and community organizations to set up our monthly dens. These include New York City - Holy Apostles Soup Kitchen, Housing Works Bookstore and Cafe, New York Public Library/Muhlenberg Library and New York City Relief at New York City Rescue Mission, San Diego - First Presbyterian Ladle Fellowship and Alpha Project Bridge Shelter, and Seattle - Mary’s Place Women’s Day Center.
Our Success Stories
See our Events page to see how we do it:
"My grandmother wrote me back and even sent me a check!"
"My mother and I did not know our brother was alive until we received his letter, thank you..."
"Thank you for helping me reconnect with my father."
"I got a job. Thank you for the prayers."
"Handwriting works, it really works!"
Background, Inspiration, and Leadership
The Founders - Jill Higson and Christian Michaels
The Writing Den was founded in August 2017 by Jill Higson, Executive Director and Christian Michaels, Treasurer. They strongly believe handwriting has the power to transform those in need. Jill is the Chief Curator & Founder of The Art Arsenal, a contemporary artist representative boutique that launched in January 2018. Previously she worked for over 20 years as a digital sales and marketing executive in New York and Los Angeles for Thomson Reuters, Condé Nast, and Viacom.
Christian has had a long career making pictures for commercial clients, recently evolving into creating interactive video and light installations for corporate, hospitality, and retail venues.
Our Inspiration - Ernestine "Tina" Diesing
The Writing Den was inspired by Ernestine Diesing, Christian's mother who passed away in August 2017. Tina, as she was affectionately known, was a tireless writer - one who kept a diary and wrote cards and letters to friends and family almost every day.
Tina left behind a treasure trove of writing materials - cards, envelopes, stationary, and even postage. She also had a strong compassion for those less fortunate than her.
It is through Tina's spirit that The Writing Den was founded. Her passion for writing and collected resources make it possible for the homeless to connect with loved ones with a handwritten note.
Board of Directors
Jill Higson - Executive Director
Jill Higson has held senior roles in integrated media sales and marketing for over 20 years in New York City and Los Angeles. She managed content, audience, and financial growth for the digital divisions of Reuters, Condé Nast, MTV, and E!. Currently she is the Chief Curator of a boutique artist representative firm, The Art Arsenal.
Jill and her partner, Christian Michaels founded The Writing Den in 2017. She is an active and long time member of arts organizations including National Arts Club, Soho House, The High Line, and Whitney Museum of American Art.
She holds a BA, Communications from the University of Washington. For fun, Jill enjoys theater, global travel, a good book, and pilates.
Christian Michaels - Treasurer
Christian Michaels has had a productive, 30 year making pictures for Getty Images and other commercial clients. His work has evolved into creating interactive video and light installations for corporate and hospitality venues.
Christian and Jill Higson founded The Writing Den in 2017. He also supports local non-profit organizations including KPBS, and Museum of Contemporary Art of San Diego, and Museum of Photographic Arts.
He holds a BA, Psychology from Wake Forest. Christian spends his spare time traveling, studying music and comedy, and getting through his latest home improvement project.
Lamar Rutherford - Secretary
Lamar Rutherford currently works as a business broker for Exit Consulting Group, helping owners exit their businesses, and teaches entrepreneurship for the Rady School of Management at the University of California, San Diego.
Lamar has also founded, operated, and sold three businesses of her own. She did brand management marketing for Nestle, Disney, and Orient-Express, (now called Belmond) and has been on the management teams for three Internet start-ups.
She earned her CPA working for Arthur Andersen & Company, did her undergraduate at the University of Washington, and MBA at the Tuck School at Dartmouth College. For fun, Lamar enjoys polo, yoga, theater, and traveling.
Marc Parilla - Board Member
Marc Parilla is currently an Executive Director for JP Morgan Chase in San Francisco. He has been in leadership roles in the finance industry for 15 years, also working for Deutsche Bank and Union Bank.
His volunteer experience includes the Alpine Fire Department in New Jersey where he grew up.
He holds a BA, Public Policy Analysis from Dickinson College. Marc lives in San Francisco with Lisa and their two children, Natasha and Roman.
Lisa Weier-Parilla - Board Member
Lisa Weier-Parilla has over 20 years of experience in global media sales and brand strategy. She is currently Director of Business Development for the travel media and marketing company, Skift. She has held management and senior sales roles at The Oprah Magazine, Condé Nast Traveler, Forbes, The New Yorker, and Rolling Stone.
Lisa consults with various nonprofit partners including leading fundraising efforts for The Cove School.
She holds a BA, Communications, Journalism from Arizona State University. Lisa lives in San Francisco with her husband Marc and their two children, Natasha and Roman.
Advisors
Richard Karlson
Richard Karlson is the President of Real Life Skills, a San Diego based non-profit that he co-founded with James Robins in 2014. The organization teaches proven life enhancing concepts, including the power of thinking and understanding life choices for those seeking a better life; the homeless in transition, at risk youth, and prison inmates scheduled for early release.
Richard's long time commitment to the homeless in San Diego began with active interactions with homeless on the streets. This lead to personal involvement and support at Presbyterian Urban Ministries, Ladle Steering Committee of First Presbyterian Church, and the formation of Real Life Skills.
He had a successful 40 year career as a financial professional working in Los Angles and San Diego for companies that included Steelcase, Anderson Desk, Abbey Rents, and Arthur Anderson.
Richard holds a BS from University of California, Los Angeles. He resides in downtown San Diego with his wife Susie Zlaket and enjoys golf and travels.
Lyssa Melonakos
Lyssa Melonakos' introduction to poverty and community development work came when she served for a year in ministry in a riverside neighborhood in Honduras, Central America. Lyssa has since worked with youth in the foster care and juvenile court systems, and those in unstable housing conditions.
Lyssa now works in homeless ministry at the Ladle Fellowship and over the past year has developed a street medicine program and mentoring program for individuals in transition out of homelessness.
She holds a BA from University of California, San Diego. In her spare time, Lyssa enjoys coffee shops, reading, and jamming on guitar with friends.